As with many medical topics, male enhancement has its own share of myths, insecurities, and “the word on the street” or “Google” rumors. It’s without a doubt one of the most popular topics Dr. Joe Pazona is asked about. So, in a new episode of the Balls Deep podcast, Dr. Pazona and Cat Williams sit down to discuss the big questions surrounding male enhancement: Does size really matter? Is there a way to increase one’s size?
Does Penis Size Truly Matter?
The short answer? Yes, but not in the way most men envision.
Cat put it perfectly: there’s a “goldilocks zone.” Too small can be a problem, and too big is actually a turn off. The truth is, most women (and partners in general) don’t want a superhuman appendage. They want connection, confidence, and comfort, not something that requires its own zip code.
As a board-certified urologist, Dr. Pazona says most guys are completely normal. He’s examined thousands of penises and can say the vast majority fall within the same size range. The issue isn’t the penis; it’s what’s between the ears.
Penis Enlargement Myths: What Doesn’t Work
Let’s shatter the most common male enhancement myths.
❌ 1. Jelqing & Self-Stretching Techniques
Sorry fellas, massaging, pulling, or stretching it every day will not elongate it. It is not a muscle that can be bulked in the gym.
❌ 2. Penis Pumps
While vacuum devices may be useful for erectile dysfunction, there is no evidence for gaining size.
❌ 3. Gas Station Supplements
If it can be found next to beef jerky at 7-Eleven, chances are it isn’t approved by the FDA. So-called “enhancement” pills are mostly unregulated and lack any scientific evidence. If any pill could actually increase the size of your penis, we would be putting it in the water supply.
What Actually Works?
Lets discuss real solutions, and spoiler alert, there are no magic solutions to any of this.
✅ 1. Fillers (Hyaluronic Acid)
These work similarly to cosmetic fillers, where they are injected under the skin of the penis to increase girth (not length). Some newer options show promise, but they come with certain risks like infection, scar tissue, and unpredictable results.
✅ 2. Surgical Options/
- Penile Implant Surgery: This is a plastic surgery that is done to those with severe erectile dysfunction or suffer from Peyronie's disease. This surgery is NOT recommended for men looking to increase size, as it merely replaces natural erection with a mechanical device.
- Suspensory Ligament Surgery: This surgery involves the cutting of the penis ligament in the pubic bone, and therefore the penis can hang lower, but it is of no use during sex as it lacks stability. This is mostly not worth it.
- The "Himplant": This implant is placed subliminally under the skin via a scrotal incision, which is used for increasing girth and enhancing appearance and, to some, produces surprisingly natural results. But, just like every other procedure, this too is surgery, and with it comes numerous, long-term risks.
The Most Natural Way to Increase Size
The most effective, safest, and cheapest way to add some inches to your penis?
👉 Weight loss.
A man can gain back approximately an inch of girth for every 30-50 pounds shed. Why? Fat deposits in the pubic area (known to some as the FUPA) tend to cover the base of the penis. It’s still there, just hiding.
The list does not end there. Losing weight also:
- Improves blood circulation
- Diminishes erectile dysfunction
- Increases testosterone
- Elevates self worth
Key Takeaways for Men Worried About Size
- Relax, you’re probably fine. Most individuals fall within an acceptable size.
- Talk to your partner. You might just be surprised that size is often not something they even consider.
- Avoid shady fixes. If something is too good to be true, more often than not it is.
- Focus on your health. Dropping a few pounds works better than any enhancement product.
- Talk to a specialist. If you are still worried, discuss your concerns with a urologist who has board certification, not some Reddit forum.
When to Actually Go See a Doctor
If you have a buried penis (where excess fat or skin hides the penis entirely) then yes, this can be a serious medical condition. It can lead to infections, problems with hygiene, and urinary tract disorders. Such problems can be managed with surgery, where coordination between plastic surgery and urology is needed.
But in the case of an average guy? No radical approaches are needed. Instead, you will need clarity, confidence, and maybe a new pair of pants that fit better.
Final Thoughts: Bigger Isn’t Always Better
If you are a man who is wanting to enhance, or a partner to someone who is, this is the bottom line:
Size matters less than you think.
What is a bigger concern? Intimacy. Health. Communication. Confidence. Your penis does not have to be a superstar; it just needs to function properly and the both of you need to be happy.
If there are still questions on your mind, you should visit a urologist. Not Dr. Google. Not Tik Tok. An actual medical doctor with years of experience.
Now that we’ve answered the question of does size really matter, you may have some more questions regarding the penis and male enhancement. Check out the answers to some of the most popular questions about the penis you’ve wanted to ask your doctor!
Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not substitute professional medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare provider for personalized guidance.
