There is a good chance that if you have googled “vasectomy regret”, you’ve found your way to some bizarre Reddit threads or horror stories. You are not the first person to do this. As a board certified urologist who has performed more than 4,000 vasectomist at Pazona MD, Dr. Pazona has seen everything from the nervous laughs, to sweaty palms, and yes, to the rare cases of regret.
Here’s the truth: vasectomy regret is extremely rare. In a new episode of the Balls Deep podcast, we tackle the top 4 reasons why guys do regret this procedure and how you can avoid being one of them. Let’s go balls deep into it:
1. You Just Weren’t Ready
This is the biggest factor, and the most commonly cited reason for regret. The vasectomy is a life-altering surgery that requires perfect timing. If you are in your early 20’s and are still single, the vasectomy may be taking things too far. Research has shown that the male brain does not mature until the age of 25. Some of us take longer than others however. Guys who are best suited for a vasectomy are those who are certain that they do not want to have kids. No doubts. No maybes. If that is not you? Use reliable birth control and hold off on making anything permanent.
2. A New Relationship Changes Plans
Sometimes, life is unexpected. You may find yourself married with children, get a vasectomy, and then, after a divorce, meet someone who wants to have children. Vasectomy reversals exist, but they are not as straightforward surgically, they are more costly and, at times, unsuccessful. Don’t make permanent decisions if there is a chance your partner or life plans might change.
3. Pain, Before or After
This is more common as a discussion topic online than as a situation people actually have to go through.
👉 During the Procedure
If you’re reading horror stories about painful vasectomies, chances are those people didn’t go to the right provider. At Pazona MD, we use a no-needle, no-scalpel technique with laughing gas, to put you at ease. Your mindset matters too. The calmer you are, the smoother the experience.
👉 After the Procedure
There is a rare condition known as post-vasectomy pain syndrome. Though it’s rare (1 out of 4,000 patients needed treatment in Dr. Pazona’s experience), it’s a real condition. Most urologists don't discuss it, but if you are concerned about the pain, it’s certainly something to consider. With the proper mental state and the right choice of physician, the chances of serious pain is very low.
4. Fear That Sex Will Change
The biggest and most absurd myth about having a vasectomy is that it will ruin your sex life. In fact, many men say it gets better. Why's that? Accidental pregnancies are no longer a problem and your partner is likely happy that you stepped up to take control of birth control. Here is what a vasectomy does NOT change:
- Erections
- Testosterone levels
- Sex drive
- Orgasms
All we’re doing is preventing the sperm from joining the party, and nothing changes in hormone levels or performance. Let’s face it, though, very few things are more appealing to a partner than a man who is responsible in bed.
How Can You Regret-Proof Your Vasectomy?
If you’re considering the snip, here’s your checklist to make sure you’re ready:
✅ Be honest with yourself. Are you really done having kids?
✅ Does your partner agree? Are both of you 100% aligned?
✅ Find the best doctor, as experience is important.
✅ Know your options. Sperm banking and reversals do exist if life changes.
Remember that doubt means don’t. If you are not sure, wait. When you are ready, we’ll be ready here at Pazona MD.
Final Thoughts
A vasectomy is one of the simplest and most effective contraception surgeries that you can perform to take control of your reproductive future when the time is right. With more than 4,000 patients and a streamlined, pain-minimized method, we’ve seen firsthand how life-changing a vasectomy can be. If you are considering going snip-snip, do it with confidence, not regret.
Learn More or Schedule Your Vasectomy
You’re all up to speed on whether or not you will regret your vasectomy. Are you ready to schedule your vasectomy? Get started by learning more and taking our quiz to judge your readiness for having a vasectomy at Pazona MD!
Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not substitute professional medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare provider for personalized guidance.
